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Well, Jae-Dogg, you don’t know what to do??? Well, I am going to talk to you like a man, so first:
GROW UP!
Yes, I know this is not easy; it took me until I was about 35 to grow up and stop letting women run the show.
Hopefully, you can do much better. Below, I am gonna tell you more.
BUT READ THIS:
Second: stop screwing GIRLS. I don’t know what the laws are where you live, but it is against the law in most places for adults to screw
minors. You are 18? She is a few years younger? Stop.
Third: This is the real advice. Your problem is not this woman; it is you. You committed AT LEAST two major mistakes; never do
them again:
- You treated her like a “goddess”. This is an invitation for her to treat you like shit. Go to here, or here to find a book that will help you get over this stupidity.
- You asked her about the status of your relationship. Never do this; always assume it is fine and proceed as if it is. What did you get for your
question? Unlimited grief. Why did she answer the question the way she did? You put too much pressure on her to make this something serious. How old is she? 15? 16? She
doesn’t need to be serious, pal.
Now, what are you going do? You are
miserable, you feel like shit; you can’t sleep; you can’t go to work. Look, I’ve been there -- you will get over it. Some things that help:
- Admit it is over and you will never have this girl
- Find more women, over 18, and have wild sex with them
- Do not call her; try not to think about her --- admit to yourself that it is over (and be glad for it -- you are 18 --- there are SO MANY WOMEN OUT THERE)
- If you see her by accident, or she calls you, be friendly, but aloof. If she invites you to get together, make sure you have something else to d
o.
Until you are dead-bang certain that you are in a long-term relationship, always have a couple of women that you are setting up to go out with,
even if you are going with someone else; that way, you can pick right up with someone new if you get dumped;
- Try not to drink too much -- it makes you do stupid stuff.
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