Well, okay, this is MY advice.

This is stuff that has been used by me and other guys I know.  It is not here unless it works. 

First off, let me say this:  I believe in a “total” approach.  Yeah, I know everybody is selling you a bunch of “speed seduction”; power methods, whatever, but I think you need to know them all, practice them, and use what works for you!  'Nuff said for now.  Check out these advice pages: